-sudden rant-

恋爱能使人成长吗？
does being in love really give us a feeling of being more mature and more responsible?

should we really just live for the moment n be happy with the day, not planning or thinking about what tomorrow holds? and will that be real happiness, or just plain ignorance n denial..

i really think that both persons should have a share of such thoughts about the future. well in a way is a growing process for both person dont u think? perhaps being in a relationship is part of growing up. but will we be "less mature" if we never had such a chance? hmm.. i feel that being ever in a relationship helps in personal development-->psychologically.

its something new in a sense. we are going through new things everyday. and we should be learning everyday. "When u lose, dont lose the lesson" yes no one's life is plain sailing..heck..would it be fun if it was?
Not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck too, cuz in life we have gone after so many things n people that even when we do get them in the end we are not sure whether they are worth our effort n time.We want them so badly, only to regret/ not get maximum satsfaction. Lust of the blood, permission of the Will.

Sometimes we lose things, n its meant to be. Cuz we dont really need them, or we havew other priorities that are deemed more important that the thing we lost. People as well. New people enter every other day of our lives. Waste the day brooding over the lost object/person , or rather spend time knowing others better n paying more attention to our other prized possessions?

i guess i have chosen the latter. yes its time to move on. move away. move forward.

gotta be my last posting for a long time. take care all u people who even bother to read. yep. haha..